You've got to lose love if you want to find love

Hi past-lovers,

A long time ago we used to be friends.
We used to be more. Now we're just friends. But sometimes we're not. No one really knows what we are. We fight. We love. We hate. We argue. We get along. We don't. We try our hardest to make amends. But really, we can't be friends. Because that just blurs what it really means when it ends.
So we don't love. We forget how to feel. We never really know what is real. We know it's tough. But it's the deal.
We get over it. We start again. We find someone new to start a new end. We hope and we pray that this person will stay. Too the bitter end. We may lose another friend.

Here's my break-up playlist...
I haven't been there in a while but I know how heart-ache feels when you think you've found the "one" only to see that they aren't who you thought them to be. Or maybe you're young, just trying to have some fun. Only to get hurt when you finally realize you're being treated like dirt. Or perhaps you have a crush; which is a suitable name. Loving is the feeling and rejection is the pain. Let's all take a second and forget our harsh words; the "fuck you"'s and the "classless filth"'s that we've ever heard. Maybe you're the rejector or maybe the rejected. Either way, we all come together and help one another. We can sympathize and realize what we've been hiding. We can leave it behind, in the back yard, in a hole, left for the dog to dig up some day. Really our secrets won't always stay. So let lose and forget it, for life goes on. Try to enjoy it. And listen to these songs:

remember, life goes on. Sometimes (if not all the time), you've got to lose love if you want to find love.
Keep on keepin' on. Never stop loving and most importantly: never stop living.
Take care.

xx. julie